You Do Not Have to Put Your Life
on Hold While You Wait.
Waiting Well is a Christ centered community for single Christian men and women who want to grow while they wait. Live monthly coaching with Caleb, biblical teaching, and people who understand this season from the inside.
Join Waiting WellYou love God. You are praying. You are doing your best to trust the process.
And yet some days the waiting feels less like a season and more like a sentence.
You scroll past another engagement announcement and quietly wonder what is wrong with you. You have read the books, listened to the sermons, and tried to stay encouraged. But somewhere in there a thought shows up that you would never say out loud.
Is this season counting for anything, or am I just waiting for my life to start?
We built Waiting Well for that question.
Here is what Waiting Well is not.
Not matchmaking
Nobody here is going to set you up. This is not a place to come looking for a date, and protecting that is what allows everyone to show up honestly.
Not dating tactics
No scripts. No formulas. No rules about how many days to wait before you text somebody back. We are not going to teach you how to get someone to choose you.
Not a place to obsess
If your whole life is currently organized around finding someone, this community will gently point you somewhere better. There is no performance required here.
We have walked the road you are on.
In one season of his life, Caleb lost his dream of playing professional sports, lost his grandfather, and lost a five year relationship. All of it at once. He spent years finding his way back to God and back to himself before he was genuinely ready to love anyone well. Nobody handed him a plan for those years. He had to figure out what to do with them.
Stefanie was left three months before her wedding, on Valentine's Day. She had the dress, the venue, and the man, and then it was all gone. Instead of giving up, she went and earned her master's degree in marriage and family therapy. What she learned changed her life. She had been doing relationships from a place of unhealed wounds and had not even known it.
Then we got married, and we waited thirteen years for a child.
Thirteen years of praying for something specific. Thirteen years of watching other people receive exactly what we were asking for. Thirteen years of deciding, over and over, what we were going to do with our hearts in the meantime.
We did not build Waiting Well because we had it figured out. We built it because we know what this season costs, and what it can produce when you stop going through it alone.
Waiting seasons are not wasted seasons. God was not idle during ours, and He is not idle in yours.
"Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce. Marry and have sons and daughters. Increase in number there; do not decrease. Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile."
Jeremiah 29:5 to 7You are tired of doing this alone.
Four things that actually create change.
Identity in Christ First
When your worth is rooted in God and not your relationship status, everything shifts. You stop chasing unhealthy connections and start showing up differently in every area of life.
Heart Healing
Your future marriage cannot be built on an unhealed heart. We help you release past pain, break old patterns, and become the person you are called to be before that relationship ever begins.
Biblical Wisdom
Not dating strategies or surface level tips. Real Scripture rooted teaching that gives you clarity, direction, and the tools to make decisions from a place of faith instead of fear.
Community That Gets It
You were not designed to grow alone. Waiting Well gives you a safe, Christ centered space to be honest, get support, and walk this season with people who truly understand where you are.
A real rhythm of support, month after month.
You get coached live by Caleb, every month.
One hour with Caleb, every month. You bring the real question, the one you would not ask out loud at church, and you get a real answer. This is the heartbeat of Waiting Well. If you cannot make it live, post your question ahead of time and it gets answered on the call. Every session is recorded and posted inside.
The community never goes quiet.
A monthly challenge to give you something to actually do. Teaching through the month. An honest community question that invites real answers, not performance. There is always something happening here, and always somewhere to be honest about where you really are.
Biblical Teaching and Devotionals
Scripture based lessons and growth prompts covering healing, identity, relationships, and faith. Simple, practical, and built for where you actually are. Designed to renew your mind one small step at a time.
A Community That Understands
Christian singles who are serious about God and serious about growing. Share wins, ask for prayer, find accountability, and stop walking this road alone. You can be as loud or as quiet here as you need to be. Nobody is keeping score.
The usual way keeps you stuck.
The usual approach
The Waiting Well way
What members say about this season.
I always thought a singles community would feel awkward. But this one is different. I have found clarity, peace, and friendships that actually get it. The monthly challenges helped me confront mindsets I did not even know were holding me back. This is not striving. It is purpose and real transformation.
This community reshaped my identity in Christ and helped me believe I can be healed, restored, and made new. I am grateful for the encouragement and support I have received.
I found real community, deeper friendships, and a place where I can grow spiritually with other believers. I would not be where I am today without it.
Being here has pushed me to walk with God and with others in a deeper way. The accountability has strengthened my faith and my consistency in ways I did not expect.
Waiting Well helped me grow in my walk with God and showed me how important community is during singleness. I feel blessed to be connected here.
After a painful breakup, the Lord used this community to heal me and to prepare me for things I did not think were possible. Waiting Well helped me trust God again and find peace in a season I had been dreading.
Your first week inside.
Watch the welcome video
Under four minutes. It tells you what this place is, what it is not, and how to use it. That is all it is there for.
Introduce yourself
Your name, roughly where you are in the world, and one thing you are hoping God does in you this season. The people who say something in their first week are the ones who end up belonging here.
Get the next call on your calendar
The live Q&A with Caleb is where this community comes alive. Put it in your phone and bring one real question with you.
Your community is waiting for you.
Tuesday, September 15 at 4:00pm ET
Everything you want to know.
You do not have to do
this alone anymore.
If you want to grow, heal, and prepare for a healthy relationship with peace instead of pressure, Waiting Well was built for you. You are welcome here exactly as you are.
Yes. I Am Ready to Join.